Be patient and relaxed and don't worry if they struggle to talk about their feelings to start with

If your child continues to be unhappy about the relationship - it will be hard for you but it is important for them to share their feelings and be listened to

Sometimes writing things down before visiting the GP is helpful way for them to share their feelings

They can have very strong feelings about what they will and won’t do which can be hard for you to understand at times

\nThe after effects of trauma can show up in different ways, including feelings of:\n\nAnxiety\nLow Mood\nSleep Problems\nTroubles with friendships\nAlcohol or Drug problems\nPhysical Symptoms\nLoneliness

It could be: Life changes and/or worries about things happening in their lives Bad dreams and night time fears Not having a regular bedtime and getting up time Being ‘over-stimulated’ before bedtime by some foods or drinks, screen time or social media The room being too hot/too cold, or too light/too dark Trauma from an unexpected scary or stressful event Coping with feelings of grief after someone dies Feeling anxious about something, for exam

They learn about their feelings and their own likes and dislikes

Starting school can create a mix of exciting and anxious feelings for every child, but neurodivergent children have their own set of educational and sensory needs which can mean that the transition to school will need a bit more planning